Friday
Time flies.
看到很多人在臉書講一番告別2015的感受,我想這一年過得也挺快的。
昨晚才跟住在一起的韓國人和菲律賓人一起慶祝除夕,吃韓燒,心裡總記掛着香港。
2月8日才是新年!!!!!!!!
Friday
Time flies.
看到很多人在臉書講一番告別2015的感受,我想這一年過得也挺快的。
昨晚才跟住在一起的韓國人和菲律賓人一起慶祝除夕,吃韓燒,心裡總記掛着香港。
2月8日才是新年!!!!!!!!
Monday cool and windy
Work 1645 to 2145
Find some useful links about health and English language arts.
1. http://cool.ptt01.cc/post_6687
2. http://buzzorange.com/vidaorange/2015/07/30/culture-and-attitude/
3. http://buzzorange.com/vidaorange/2015/07/28/how-to-say-sorry/
And more and more...
Sunday windy
Tidy up the room, the bed has been changed in the other side and so did the desk.
 欣赏幽默,喜欢幽默的人,这种感觉没来由,或许是感到生活太压抑,或许是太渴望欢笑。
每期《非诚勿扰》总是尽量抽出时间来看,与其说喜欢孟非、乐嘉的睿智、机敏,还不如说是喜欢他们的幽默和那种幽默带来的欢快、愉悦。
《辞海》中对幽默这个词是这样描述的:美学名词,通过影射、讽喻、双关等修辞手法,在善意的微笑中,揭露生活的乖讹和不通情理之处。
事实上,在我认为,幽默是一种智慧的表现,它是人机敏与豁达的自然流露,信手拈来,没有矫揉造作,却令人忍俊不禁。 幽默的类型可分为:自嘲式幽默,调侃式幽默,比喻式幽默和对抗式幽默......
幽默如同一块磁铁,可以将周围的人吸引过来,还可以将自己的烦闷转换为欢畅,将烦恼转化为快乐,将尴尬转化为平和。
当我们与平和的人相处时,往往会感到愉悦和轻松,在心情焦虑、烦躁时,一句幽默可以使我们的心得以平静;在面对逆境、坎坷、沉重时,一句幽默可以让我们充满乐观,重新找回自信。这,就是幽默的魅力。
记得有这样一个故事:原民主德国空军俱乐部举行盛宴招待空军英雄,一位年轻的士兵在斟酒时,不慎将酒洒到乌戴将军的秃顶上,顿时,士兵悚然,全场寂然,倒是这位将军悠悠然,拍着士兵的肩膀笑着说:“兄弟,你以为这种治疗方法有用吗?”一句话逗得人们笑声不绝,立刻驱走了室内的紧张气氛。
还在一本书上看到过这样一个笑话:有位业余作者和妻子吵架后,几天互不说话,妻子一气之下便写下了离婚申请,这位朋友看出了问题的严重性,便灵机一动,拿起一张铅印退稿单,和妻子开起了玩笑,他写道:“来稿收到,经反复研究,不予采用,现将原稿退回,谢谢支持!”其妻看后,忍俊不禁,夫妻和好如初......
确实,幽默在我们的日常生活中,起着不可低估的作用,夫妻间有了幽默,八成不会成仇,因为那仇还没成,就被幽默化解了;同事之间有了幽默,八成不至闹僵,因为本来会造出冲突的“直言”,都用幽默做了暗示。幽默最大的妙用,就是不伤情,却要把说的话婉转地说了,又好像没有真说。
钱仁康说:“幽默是一切智慧的光芒,照耀在古今哲人的灵性中间,凡有幽默的素养者,都是聪敏颖悟的,他们会用幽默手腕解决一切困难问题,而把每一种事态安排得从容不迫,恰到好处”。确实,颇具幽默感的人永远受人欢迎。
幽默,不仅可以化解许多人际关系中的冲突和尴尬,还能给人们扩大思维的空间,反躬自省的机会,它往往使人怒气全消,雨过天晴,亦可带给别人快乐,缩短人与人之间的距离。
现实中,我们生活在一个快节奏、高效率的年代,工作的压力,生活的烦恼,让我们无时无刻不渴望欢笑,无时无刻不渴望轻松,而幽默就如一缕春风,能轻轻拂去我们心头的阴霾;又如一丝清泉,给人无比的惬意和清爽。
亲爱的朋友,不管你有多苦多累,不管你有多烦多忧,请试着学会幽默吧,用幽默带来的快乐感染你身边的每一个人,也给自己一份开朗和自信,人生需要欢笑,生活需要幽默。
幽默,人生中不可或缺的一道愉悦风景!
MondaY
希望讓我的思緒得以重整。
很寫意的一天,雖然很多事情雜亂擾攘我變成一個悲觀主義者。
當初,我為何要聽命父母的勸勉,放下所有來澳洲。教書不再適合我嗎?我千萬般糾結。
來到這裡,我無悔。
當初,不是說放下,就能放下,所有事有捨有得。難放下是感情,我對學校,學生,還有我的將來,我糾結,是我不知道自己要怎樣規劃將來的自己。邊工作,邊讀書,我做到了。很好玩嗎? 你試試便知道味兒。
我的任務是甚麼?
我在這裡能做甚麼?散心? 遠離令人無法看到希望的教育體制? 非指學生。
需要甚麼?新鮮的空氣,足夠的金錢。
種種的人事變動,好像是定律而非定律,好像是人情而非真人情。
是壓力,讓你難以釋懷,難以辨別孰是孰非。做人還是做事,哪個是首位?
Sunday
1. $1050 for December housing rent, from 14th Monday, Dec, to 3rd Sunday, Jan, total 3 weeks.
2. 我的少女時代。林真心,徐太宇。
Tuesday
Working days :
9/12 Wed
10/12 Thur
11/12 Fri
12/12 Sat
世界那麼大,我是那麼的小。
Waiting for more telephone calls from different companies.
Cool Friday
Buy some bread $6.2,
$6.7,
$5.85麥樂雞
An English man chatted with us for heart disease promotion. He liked my burger t-shirt.
At 10pm, I went back Makoto Bento to attend Ms Kumi's farewell.
Tuesday hot
2nd week working started~~~730 ~1430,1700 ~2100
No keys to open the door. I can't go back to the new home.
730 to 2200 Wed
730 to 1500 Sat
Friday
Several things happened today
1. Looking forward ~29.11.2015 go to a new flat which is opposite to Westfield.
2 Received a present from Nat Wong, a photo frame.
3. Anger at the treatment of the landlord, bad response via wechat in ching's mobile phone.
4. Jerry took back his things like cooking stuff and daily use.
5. Chat with Nelly that next uear May, plan for Cairns in Queensland. Have to buy air tickets.
Sunny, cool Mon
Start working on the 1st day.
。HUNGRY...CONSTIPATION。
730~1515 Ayumi
730~1500 Tue
730~1500, 1630~2200 Wed
730~1500 Thur
1630~2200 Sat
Cloudy, cool Saturday
Couldnt sleep after woke up.
4pm out.
https://backerfounder.typeform.com/to/QDbDxY
Very hot, the hottest day I ve never met in Aus
#suntan lotion# better not to go out# Friday
Ching continued her work from 0730 to 1545.
I talked to a thinner guy who just moved in near my room yesterday. He is 18, and his fatter partner is 20. They are going to study here in Catholic university. I'm not sure about this.
Stay at home most of the time. Seems to have adapted for this house, but we have to move out in next week, before Saturday or so. Near afternoon, i bought some vegetables and meat.
At night, the fatter guy with small eyes cooked noodles for us, but Ching wanted to have some rice for dinner. So i cooked for her.
星期四曬到呢,昨天開始熱,今天繼續~~*^O^*
今天最特別,是澳洲最忙的一天。未返工已經要俾 110 筆錢先。
上堂是為了工作需要。
全部18,20,22歲,來自不同國家。大開耳及眼界。
930-1100,1400-1530完結,人工好易賺。
唔怪得外國人咁肥啦…
好彩passed. RSA. 累死,昨晚睡不好,今天上完課立即去Makoto Bento 拿工作服。其實同佢地一齊幾緊張,自己英文有限水平。
***準備搬家,
The new accomodation is a building which is opposite to Westfield. The holder is a Korean lady. I had my tired body to go with Ching to check the apartment. The master room seemed like smaller than where we live now.
Sunny Wed
太陽真猛烈,像夏天。
Makoto Bento 今天第一次見工, 明天上課,先交110大元 RSA ~~930至下午4點,陰公。
第一次自己由Chatswood 搭去 Central. 面見 HR Ms Narigo. 起薪點為12.5 , 算!
最閉房東話2星期後搬遷,阿靜尋找新居。
God bless us.
Sunny, wendy Tuesday
14 DAYS ALREADY.
Sunny again, better than yesterday. Loaf of bread in the morning.
Spent 52.7 dollars today, because we bought 2 mouses,one is light blue, one is pink, cost $25 totally. And other food, including meat and bones.
Chatted with a tall Australian girl in Coles supermarket for half a hour.
Nice, she is going to America in January next year.
I watched tv news at night with Suyan who lived nearby.
Sunny Monday
Just had given my resumes to several shops, including Japanese cafe, chocolate cafe, Price-pharmacy before I realised most of them won't hire me.
Bought $6.1 chasiu, ching went to school in the afternoon.
Suyan from neighborhood is doing House with no steps, a government NGO, a accountant for 6 yrs staying in Australia.
Sunny on Sunday
Sunny in the morning,rainy and afternoon.
Ching menus seems to be all right.
Go around all shops in Chatswood. Sushi ate everywhere. Chin medicine, yorgurt ice cream.
Buy many things and mich food in Westfield, such as Coles, Miracle these supermarkets.
And i promised to send my resume tmr to one chocolate cafe in a food court near Hello kitty and Timhowan.
Drizzling, cloudy, rainy Saturday
A neighbor who is a girl aged 25 was settled today near our room. Her family came together.
I found Chatswood library and copied my id card by using a copy machine there, where near Oliver Brown.
Roasted chicken was still eaten tonight and tomorrow.
After all, hope we can get along with each other.
後記:
你說我來這裡的不適應是迫於講英語,你相信吧 ?
20多年來講的是廣東話,間中講普通話,英語實在少之有少,怪自己在學期間不勤奮學習,還是將責任推卸去那時學校推廣英語一點效能都沒有等問題。現在在這裡講香港教育顯得沒甚麼意義。過去的事已經過去了。英語除了多聽多講,多練習,別無他法。
我來澳洲之前,經常擔心聽不懂英語。表面上好像每天都開開心心的,事實上存在的疑問,顧慮實在太多。除了安全問題,還有食宿問題,個人對地域方向陌生感問題等。
前天去JB HIFI 看看電腦,一個外國仔主動問我需要甚麼,說真的還是頭1次跟鬼仔聊天。順帶講講,那晚還wechat 1位有年紀的外佬老師,教中文,你說好笑不好笑。
唉,我半桶水的算聽得懂他講的話。他也很耐心去介紹幫我推介各式電腦。我感謝他,畢竟還是第一次跟澳洲鬼仔長時間溝通,之前有其他國家。跟男的面對面溝通要熟習一下了。
對於我來說,中文是我用慣的語言,最能表達的情意,就算英語能夠表達我的意思,但情感方面還是差一點,可能我中文中毒已深,但我還是會努力欣賞英語的美與熟習其文化氣息。
Cloudy Friday
Ching is no need to work today. But Uncle Huang made noise to wake us up. We couldn't get enough sleep.
Ziv said goodbye to her.
Ching went out at 5pm. Raining here in the afternoon, more and more. She had a pill last night because of the menus pain.
Just be scared of speaking too little English. Can't find chances to get touch with the foreigners.
Sunny, sunglasses Thursday
I saw a boy with golden hair when I opened a window this morning.
Cloudy in the afternoon, seems to be raining.
At about 3pm, I went to JB HIFI to take a look at laptops. A guy introduced some kinds of computers to me. And ching introduced a Aus teacher who teaches Chinese in Secondary school via wechat.
Rainy, cloudy Wednesday
Weather seems not good today. 10am wake up.
11am clearinghouse by aunts.
Next Wed will be up to 33 celsius degree, but lower in 14. Is the summer coming ?
STAY AT HOME FOR A DAY.